There was another discussion about love over weekend.
It seems like I am passing through an age where almost everyone likes to discuss about this word as I encounter such frequent conversations with the people of my age-group.
This time, the topic was – What is true love?
The three final symptoms were found out to be –
- When you feel that the other one is right match for you
- When someone approaches you and makes you feel like special in that someone’s life
The third and most commonly agreed upon symptom was –
- When you realize that other one is just perfect for you and that one is equally passionate about you
There was sharing of stories and personal experiences as well as opinions. Without revealing any identities, some interesting stories went like –
Someone A fell (it sounds negative in general) in love with other one B. But there was no acceptance by B. Although B was respondent but feared from society and community. Can it be called love? There is no love at all when there is fear which is mistaken as respect most of the times. Respect never discourages anyone to get into love.
NEVER CRY FOR ANY RELATION IN LIFE
BECAUSE FOR THE ONE WHOM YOU CRY
DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR TEARS
AND THE ONE WHO DESERVES
WILL NEVER LET YOU CRY
In other example, Y approached X but just to let X know that it is time for X to propose Y :D. Funny but it happened in 2 out of 5 cases.
And in another case, M loved N but M didn’t know if it is right thing to happen. Eh…these confusions.
There are species in this world who like other one, are possessive about that one, want to be with, don’t want to loose but also, fear from accepting the truth, accepting what is right but of course, not ready to let that one go. These are the people who afraid from Boy-Friend, Girl-Friend tags. Such species are most probably, your true mates but they can turn out to be your biggest weakness at other times. They are respectable but they can prove to be biggest obstacle to your mental and emotional growth. Such people were found to be part of of lives of everyone involved in discussion. (Anyone smelling Love Actually?)
Duh…life isn’t fair…but still it isn’t that bad 🙄